From Deseret News, August 14, 2009
Stop being defensive about your religion.
That’s the message Elder M. Russell Ballard of the Quorum of the Twelve delivered to 2,422 BYU graduates at the Marriott Center Thursday during commencement exercises for the Class of June 2009 and August 2009.
Ballard recounted the early struggles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, which owns the university, and a resulting sense that church members need to adopt a defensive posture. Things have changed, he said.
“This isn’t 1830, and there aren’t just six of us anymore,” the Mormon apostle said. “Constantly anticipating criticisms or objections can lead to an unhealthy self-consciousness and a defensive posture that doesn’t resonate well with others. It is inconsistent with where we are today as a church and as a great body of followers of Jesus Christ.”
He said the church’s rapid growth has given the religion, now the fourth largest in the United States, a higher profile than ever, and that church members would find themselves in more discussions about their beliefs than in the past.
“You need to be honest, open, forthright, engaging, respectful of others’ views and completely non-defensive about your own,” Ballard said. “If we want to be respected today for who we are, then we need to act confidently – secure in the knowledge of who we are and what we stand for, and not as if we have to apologize for our beliefs.
“That doesn’t mean we should be arrogant or overbearing,” he said.
Ballard offered two suggestions to remaining non-defensive in conversations.
“Don’t let irrelevant issues drown out the more important subjects,” he said, mentioning polygamy as a specific example.
“This ended in the church as an official practice in 1890. It’s now 2009. Why are we still talking about it?” he asked.
His second suggestion: “Emphasize that Latter-day Saints follow Jesus Christ and what Jesus Christ teaches.”
“Whenever you are having a conversation about the church, you should try to make this a point. We follow Jesus Christ. We try to live as he taught,” Ballard said. “That’s the basis of our faith and our lives. This is the strongest non-defensive position you can take.”
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