Address the latter by addressing the former.

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This thread is for the purpose of giving my dear sisters a sincere bit of counsel that I've given many times to individual men:

If you are single and noticeably overweight or obese, your number one priority, both spiritual and temporal, *must* be to get in shape. #DezNat

— J. Reuben Clark (@JReubenCIark) April 26, 2020

We asked, “As young adults, we often struggle to encourage our families and friends to take part in the gospel. How can we do better at sharing the gospel with them?” President Nelson took a moment to think and then said two words: ”Be attractive.” And he went on: “Be an example and be faithful.”